People who want to be sick

I spent some time with a friend today. I met her in eating disorder treatment and I really care about her. The problem is she wants to be the sickest and makes a point of trying to be "sicker" than me: and that makes me really sad :(

I text her to ask how she's doing and I get a long text back about how badly she's Doing. She told me today that she has to text pictures of all her meals to her therapist and dietician. It was time for snack and she said she didn't want to eat. I made her eat anyway! And she did eat but reluctantly.

This friend wants to be the sickest... And she wins because she IS the sickest. I don't want to be sick anymore. She just can't seem to get in a healthy mindset and that is sad. I hope she has a change of heart. I care about her so much and want to keep her in my life but her negativity is really hard to deal with sometimes. Hoping she makes a change:

Healthy is good. Be healthy.